Inside or outside - the real life

I took a nap in my bed one day and my wife was washing the dishes and my children playing in the sofa.  Then I thought well this nap should be over and I should wake up and go and help my wife wash the dishes and clean the house, I woke up and walked to the door but could not grab the handle on my bedroom door, so I knew that I was out of body and I tried to wake up, so I woke up and I was so refreshed and energized that it was great so I stood up from bed and walked to the door and grabbed the handle on the door but still my hand went through it, I was amazed how wake I was and how my mind was focused, I was more awake than I have ever been, like I felt I had been asleep my whole life.  So again I tried to wake up and woke up, I checked everything, my legs, my hands and if I could touch things and walked to the door and grabbed the handle on the door and I did not get through it but I could open it.  I felt sad, so sad because when I woke up it was like I was going to sleep and dreaming, so this life felt just like a dream and the OBE state was the real life.